Almost every first-time buyer writes the same one. Here’s how to work out which parts of yours are actually about you.
One of the first things aspiring buyers are told to do is build a Deal Box.
Pick an industry. Pick a city. Decide how much revenue and profit you want. Add recurring revenue, an established team, limited owner involvement, five years of clean financials.
Ta da. You now have almost exactly the same Deal Box as every other first-time buyer.
I see versions of it constantly. A service business doing $500K to $1M in earnings, recurring customers, a management team in place, stable or growing revenue, low customer concentration, and an owner who'll stay through transition but doesn't manage the day to day.
Those are all perfectly reasonable things to want. The problem is they tell me almost nothing about the person who's supposed to own the business.
Most first-time buyers build their criteria by collecting characteristics they've heard are desirable. They listen to Acquiring Minds, read Buy Then Build or the HBR Guide on buying a business, scroll listings on BizBuySell, talk to other searchers on SearchFunder, and copy what seems to be working for everybody else. Then they treat those borrowed preferences as facts.
Your first Deal Box isn't a fact. It's a theory.
You probably haven't owned the type of business you're describing. You may not have spoken to a single owner in that industry. You may not know what recurring revenue actually looks like in that business, how much of it is really just relationships, or what the day to day asks of the owner.
You're trying to make a ten year decision using assumptions you've never tested.
That's not a reason to skip criteria. It's a reason to stop treating your first draft like it came down from the heavens.
Before you decide what business you want, get clear on the owner you're capable of becoming.
What work gives you energy? What kind of problems are you unusually good at solving? Do you actually enjoy managing large teams, or would that drain you? Are you comfortable selling? Do you like operational complexity? Do you need geographic flexibility? How much uncertainty can you honestly tolerate? And what does your family need from this decision?
I'll tell you how I learned this one. When I was a searcher, my perfect deal ended up in Dallas. Property management. Bigger than anything I'd been looking at before.
I'd been searching in Austin, in different industries, at a smaller deal size. Not one part of that business matched what I'd written down. And if I'd held onto my criteria the way I first wrote them, I'd have scrolled right past the best fit I ever found.
The business model matched my background. It had a vibe and a brand I could get behind. It was relationship based, with B2B customers, a white-glove concierge brand, and a model I could optimize and replicate. My career was built on building relationships with businesses, offering white-glove services, and replicating and rolling out business models through licensing. Not to mention, I loved the owners and could see myself working with them for years to come.
I could see myself IN that business and growing it for the next 10 years.
That happens to buyers every day. They go looking for the business they were told to want instead of learning to recognize the business that actually matches them.
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First-time buyers try to get really specific about what they want long before they have the experience to know. A better starting point is getting extremely clear about what won't work.
Maybe you can't relocate. Maybe you want to be able to work outside. Maybe your family can't absorb heavy travel or working weekends. Maybe you want to interact with people and customers face to face, or maybe you love being able to work from home. Maybe working on a job site is a hard no.
Those constraints are useful because they come from your real life, not from a podcast. And once you take the true mismatches off the table, you've left yourself room to find things you wouldn't have known to ask for.
Reading listings is research. It isn't validation.
You validate a Deal Box by talking to brokers, sellers, lenders, and industry experts.
Or better yet, you validate by actually getting real experience in that type of business.
(A recent potential customer impressed me to no end by taking my advice from our first call about getting real world experience, and she came back with a shortlist of three companies she could do work experience with. Now that's what I'm talking about.)
When you say you want recurring revenue, what does that actually mean to you and why do you want it. When you say you want the seller out of daily operations, ask yourself why you're not capable of running daily ops and what you'll do if the person who does quits on you. When you say you want low customer concentration, find out what replacing a major customer would actually take, and whether you're willing and able to do it.
Every real conversation should either confirm your criteria, challenge them, or make them sharper. That's how a useful Deal Box gets built. Not once, repeatedly.
One of our clients recently went under offer in under two months. We spent the front end pressure testing his Deal Box with him instead of letting him build it alone off listings and podcasts. By the time the right business showed up, he knew it on sight and he moved. Our clients sent 81 LOIs in the last twelve months, and that's the pattern behind almost all of them.
A lot of buyers want the same rare combination. High profit, low price, growing revenue, minimal owner involvement, strong management, recurring customers, no concentration, no big capex, a motivated seller, and flexible financing.
That business might exist. The real question is whether it exists in your geography, at your price, during your search, with a seller who picks you over every other buyer chasing the exact same thing.
If you have the same criteria as everyone else, then you sound and look like everyone else. How's a seller or broker to choose you?
This isn't about lowering your standards. It's about knowing which characteristics are essential, which ones are preferences, and which problems you're uniquely equipped to solve.
A business doesn't need to be perfect. It needs to be a strong match for you, at a price and structure that make sense.
Changing your criteria doesn't mean you failed to prepare. It means you learned something.
The buyers who worry me aren't the ones whose criteria evolve. They're the ones still searching a year in with the same assumptions and zero evidence the approach is working.
Your first Deal Box should give you enough direction to take action. Then let the real deal experiences shape it.
Don't wait until your criteria feel perfect before you start talking to brokers and looking at real businesses. You won't think your way to clarity. You'll find it by doing the work.
Your first Deal Box is probably wrong. That's completely fine. It's your first time buying a business, so I would expect that to happen.
What matters is whether you're willing to test it.
This is for education only and isn't financial, legal, or tax advice. Talk to your own lender and advisors about your specific deal.